ive never been able to make myself cum by myself. Dh is driving me crazy holding out on me, so i figured i would try. Never really been the type to touch myself. anyway, the only vibe i have is used for my ass. so i took a shower, and wiped and cleaned the vibe really good (imo) with sanitizer. i didnt go IN my pussy b/c i still wasnt sure if it was "safe" so i just stayed on the clit. i didnt make myself cum but it sure felt good and i could prob get used to doing this everyday. but before i do that, should i just go get a seperate vibe for this purpose, or does cleaning it off like i did make it ok? just as a tease i filmed it and took some pics. DH should be quite surprised that i went to these lengths. Maybe i'll get some when he gets home??

I'm sure you will!!

Just keep it clean and keep practicing lol

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I would get a separate one specifiy for that purpose. I'm a little squeekish about ass to anything. Although you could cover it with a condom, which would be the next best thing I think. Also, not your question, but for me, I would refrain from using a vibe everyday. I feel like it desensitizes you and makes it harder to come when you don't use it.

thats certainly something to think about. but this is day x of torture and im desperate. im x and this is the first time i have ever done something like this....spent an hour on it this am... can you tell im frustrated?? somethings gotta give... :(

i was using both interchangeably (sp?) finger in/vibe on clit and vice versa. im sure this is going to take practice.

would it help if you watched porn.. or say, some one jerking off for you...maybe you need to hears some moans and groans of other people getting off to put u over.

i would need a laptop for that. sitting here at my old fashioned computer wont do it. need to be lying down it bed. i watched myself in the vid and that seemed to help a little the second time i tried.