A little help? At 16 I was willingly seduced by an older woman (long story and she was probably 50 then). The "affair" lasted all Summer. She was a great teacher! So from then on I was pretty self confidant sexually and way ahead sexually of other guys my age. I got LOTS of sex, and it was nice being the one with the sexual knowledgs. So even though I had lots of partners my age and satisfying sexual relations, I ALWAYS fantasized about older women. I am 24 now and am now seeing a woman who is 62. Sex is great, she turns me on to no end, even though I know this is just going to be a brief affair. My question to all the experienced kinky people....do you think this is something that will go its course, maybe even after this relationship. The problem is I want to find a woman my age to start a life/family with...i obviously cant do that with a woman over 40. Should I see a therapist?

Only see a therapist if you think you need to. You have trouble "relating" to women sexually because you are still hung up (in your own way) about the "hot older chick" you first banged like a screen door in a hurricane. I think the long run is saying it is advisable to have a couple conversations with a therapist just to make sure you understand how to relate sexually to a woman who can provide you with the things you want, not just orgasm donation.

I have walked that path My situation was the same as yours ... I started as a teen with a woman in her 50s and to this day (I am 38) I still adore & fantasize about much older women ... but when you find the right woman, you will know it (a woman your age, that is)